WARNING: This post discusses suicide, pornography, and mental health issues, which may be sensitive topics for some readers.
As most of you probably know, Glee actor Mark Salling was found dead on Tuesday after an apparent suicide. He was only 35 years old. In March, Salling was set to receive sentencing on child pornography charges.
Having watched Glee for almost the entirety of its TV run, this news was devastating to me. I was a band and theatre nerd, and that show was not only right up my alley subject wise, but it made me feel like being an arts nerd was kind of cool.
Anyway, one thing that's really been bothering me about Mark's death, obviously aside from the fact that the man is dead, is that many people have been practically celebrating his death. Yes, he did a terrible thing having all of that child pornography, but he didn't deserve to die. We should never celebrate someone's death, no matter what they did or how much we may dislike them.
I am in no way excusing or defending Salling's actions. What he did was terrible. However, think of how his friends and family must feel right now. Do we really want to worsen their pain by celebrating the death of their loved one? Would you want someone to do that if your loved one died?
Some people have been calling him a coward for committing suicide instead of facing his sentence. The thing is, we don't know the exact reason(s) he did it. Suicide is an extremely complex issue. Maybe he was scared of his sentence and what would happen to him in prison. Maybe he felt guilty for what he did. Or maybe there were other underlying mental health issues that were never publicly discussed, or may have gone completely undiagnosed.
While we're on the subject of mental health, I would like to point out that pedophilia or "pedophilic disorder" is an actual mental disorder in the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual-Fifth Edition (DSM-5). Let that sink in. You would think with there being so much emphasis on the need for better mental health care, more people would be aware of that.
We have all made mistakes and done things we're not proud of, so let's stop passing judgement on others and show a little more compassion.
If you or someone you know is struggling and contemplating suicide, call 1-800-273-8255.
